Author Archives: ajoval

About ajoval

I am a massage therapist. I specialize in emotional healing. I am writing this blog in hopes that my experience may help others.

What is love? continued

In Karla McLaren’s book The Language of Emotions (which changed my life. I highly recommend it), she talks about love not being an emotion. This concept blew my mind. No one had ever said anything like that. Love was nothing … Continue reading

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What is Love?

So my favorite subject, Love. What is it? This question had me baffled for some time. I was at my friend’s house, the one in the previous posts, and we were meditating in front of his alter. (No we haven’t … Continue reading

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Journey

So with all of that said, let’s get down to the point of this blog. The Journey to Love Oneself. I am going to share some of the things I did and some of the things I learned in this … Continue reading

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Possibilities of Learning

It’s the thing I learned the most. The thing that was the most difficult to learn. The thing that once I figured out its place in the process has made it possible to literally come to the brink of mental … Continue reading

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When Love dries up.

At the moment, my friend and I are not talking. I do not know why, I don’t know what I said or did that upset and hurt him. And I have to wait for him to decide when he wants … Continue reading

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Friend

So you are almost caught up to where I am now. I mean I could go on and on about my past, but frankly, I really don’t care to. Most of the past is old and doesn’t affect me as … Continue reading

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Men

Let me flesh out the man background a bit. My father molested me about the age of one and continued to abuse me in every non-physical way you can abuse a person for the rest of my childhood, all through … Continue reading

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